If you use social media to communicate with friends you seldom see, you benefit, that being the main objective of social media. Say what you will of the negativity found, but the good outweighs the bad. It is the same as with any communication, you get back what you send out, good vibes beget good vibes, as the saying goes. I personally do not use social media to tell my stance on politics, religion or someone else’s opinion. I do not like to argue and see no reason why I should. You have your opinions and I have mine. When you think about it, no one is going to change your mind on any subject you are passionate about, so why would you attempt to change someone else’s? It appears very strange to put our deep thoughts and beliefs out for strangers to mull over and comment on anyway.
Going back to social media, I receive mostly pleasant exchanges and ideas. Maybe because those are the types of info I like to share. I try to skip over negative comments, information and opinions. I don’t wish to ruin my day or a friend’s either!
Recently on Facebook, a friend who is a regular poster talked about an experience that might help others in the same spot. She told about missing a flight to visit her aunt to help her pack up her house of all her belongings and move into a senior living facility. An airport employee tried to find her another flight on that day, but was unable to do so. My writer friend stated to the the employee, “Honey, don’t you worry, there must be a reason this happened, maybe I shouldn’t have been on that flight!”
The flight scheduler told my friend that she appreciated her attitude and patience. She added, “I wish more people had your outlook!” Then she found a seat on a flight the next day for her.
On my friend’s ride back home from the airport, which was an hour’s drive, she received a call from her aunt. Her aunt had changed her mind about moving from her home, so there was no need for her to come.
All of my life, I’ve been told, “Things happen for a reason. Don’t wish too hard for something that may not end up being what you want or need!” Always make the best of what you are given, I say. Don’t rush or wish your life away. Be still, watchful and wait. See what gifts you will receive for being patient, kind and open to opportunities that come your way.
Yes, it is hard to do so sometimes; I am human and have my moments, too. But, I have experienced patience allowing more time when the need arises, and earning one a clearer answer in the end.
I, too, am sad it took a pandemic to tell us to “slow down.” Let’s don’t settle and take up where we left off. I see people working diligently to bring our lives back to ‘normal,’ not like we were, but to a higher level.
We don’t want to overlook the lessons the virus has given us. Many people have paid a very high price. Please don’t let those losses be in vain. Let’s move forward with more thoughtfulness toward others and to ourselves. Together we can begin to build a better future for us and those around us.
Jimmie Batchelor retired from Henry County Senior Services in Stockbridge, where she managed Hidden Valley Senior Center and resided for 38 years. She uses her newfound time writing and enjoying life!
