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Jimmy Cochran Columnist |
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I recently wrote about
going to Tybee Island and speaking in a church known as the Tybee Church, also
known as the Bar Church, because they meet in Benny’s Tavern on Sunday mornings.
Before I went, all I knew about the church was what I had seen on YouTube and
what I had been told by a good friend from college who lives on Tybee and goes
to the church. In fact, all I knew about Tybee Island was from reading Beverly
Wittler’s columns about her love for the island community. Now I know why she
feels this way.
I arrived on the island
mid-afternoon on a gorgeous Friday afternoon. I found my motel easily and spent
the afternoon catching up with my friend, strolling the beach and the streets of
Tybee. It was a different experience because before now I had only been to a
beach town as a tourist, not a “local.” However, walking around with a local
person kinda automatically put me in the same category and I began to meet the
often unseen local residents of the island.
Before long we ended up
in front of Benny’s and Dedra took me inside to let me see where the church
would be meeting. It was a bar. A dark, smoky, smelly beach town bar. My first
thought was basically, “uh oh.” However, as my eyes adjusted to the light, I was
being introduced to Betty. She was a lady I had seen just a few weeks earlier on
the online church service being prayed for, hugged on, cried over and just loved
all over because her daughter had just passed away. I could feel the love and
care from that group of people all the way here in McDonough.
“Wow,” I thought.
“That’s an amazing group of people to be surrounding this dear woman and praying
for her…..and in a bar.”
However, as I sat at
the bar (on a Friday afternoon this was a fully functioning bar….not a church)
and listened to Betty tell part of her story and what the church and people
meant to her, I felt a presence of God gently entering that corner of the bar.
After seeing the stage
area to the side where the bar bands play during the week and the church band
plays and speaks on Sunday (often the same band), we left and I immediately saw
an older man sitting on a bench watching traffic and the people passing by.
Naturally, Dedra knew him (she knows everybody between Savannah and
Jacksonville, I believe), and she introduced me to Bob. We sat with him for a
bit and, again, I heard a lot of his life story. The most miraculous thing that
has stuck with me day and night since then is that he is thirty-years sober. He,
too, is a regular at the Tybee Bar Church and shared the following with me.
“I like to go early on
Sunday morning when the guys start to transform part of the bar into a church. I
did a lot of sinning in this place during my life, and others still do every
day, and it is my time of healing to see this place of sin become a place of
God. It’s what keeps me strong,” shared Bob.
Well, I am out of
space, and you haven’t even met the preacher, so I’ll just have to continue this
another time. But, let me just say one thing. My life changed at Tybee Church.
They stole my heart, as I have said to many people. I met people who love those
who are often unloved; people who have such a simple childlike love for God (a
good thing) and love to come together once a week; people who love and take care
of each other and their community. That’s what church is.
And for today my
friends, this has been the gospel according to Jimmy.
Jimmy Cochran is a resident of McDonough, author, musician and occasional bar
Minister.